It's No Secret!

We live in a world where people value friends on social media over people they can call. Leaders are based on how many followers. Self-worth and value are predicated on how much money we have, the house we live in, or the cars we drive. Yet, many are unfulfilled. 

Why? It starts with me. Sometimes, I valued the wrong things, labored under very stressful conditions for short-term success, and chased other people's dreams. It is a challenge when you are on an accelerated path to success. Let me explain.  Many of us are achieving and pursuing a life that was not modeled for us. We are the beneficiaries of struggle, neglect, abuse, and hardship. I have been able to transcend my pedigree miraculously. Graduating high school before either of my parents, single-mother household and in impoverished conditions.  

My fuel at the beginning of my journey was my lack. I wanted what I never had and longed for. I wanted a home, a family all in one house, with kids we share. I wanted to get a driver's license (my mother doesn't drive) so I didn't have to depend on anyone for transportation. I desired to live a better life and do things I dreamed of. Once I got into practice, I wanted to have a successful career. I coached with successful doctors to figure out how to grow my practice and increase my income. Then I realized we had many differences in approach, background, traumas, market value, challenges, and philosophy. I began to pursue who God created me to be. I began searching for my purpose and the work I was predestined to walk in. That allowed me to drop a lot of extra weight I was carrying. I don't want to be like anyone else or achieve their goals. I want to have the most impact possible and help make this world better. Many limiting beliefs, mindsets, and philosophies must be destroyed for us to be fulfilled.

Happiness is not the same as fulfillment. Life, social media, advertisements, and apps try to persuade us to do what makes us feel happy. However, temporary happiness may cost us fulfillment. I discovered a better way of living and the freedom that comes with it. I plan to share that with you and as many people as possible so we can all live an impactful life. No longer waiting for permission, questioning if we're good enough, the right one, qualified, or capable. I want to help 1 million people acquire the character, habits, and skills for a more fulfilling life. That includes income, influence, and impact! 

It's no secret I am a Christian, and I live by these principles and values. I believe God loves us all and has a unique purpose for all of us. There's an intentional mismanagement and miscommunication in our lives. I'm asking you to reflect on this blog post, one of the most personal blogs written so far, and evaluate your journey. Are you fulfilled? Have you been comfortable, complacent, or settling for success and happiness? Have you been afraid to go beyond your comfort level to see what your ideal life can be? If so, I want to invite you to a conversation I will be having on May 16th. I hope you will share this message with as many as possible if you believe in this message. There's no cost but a lot to be gained. 

Below is the link as I challenge you to do more than exist and have nice things. Do your best with all you have for as long as possible for as many! 

https://activefamilywellnesscenter.online/event-registration-52